Too much too soon?

I'm not getting married yet,
but i have a list of wedding budget, themes and savings plan
with whom I'm meant to be with.
*yes people, I don't plan to trouble my parents*

I'm not moving out from my parents home yet,
but i'm currently scouting for potential property, cracking my head whether i should be staying for few years in condo and buy a house when my family expand OR cut to the chase and just get a house straightaway to stay forever.

I don't plan to conceive baby immediately when I got married,
but i already have the name in mind, the things to prepare when i do and how much savings I should reserve for his/her future.

Wth is wrong with my hormone head this week??!

It was a whole load of info in a week!

Foooo..... digest one... by one.. @_@

Just when i was in the middle of having all this thoughts in my head, i then receive more news that 5 people who are close to me are getting engage and 1 is expecting @_@. The kureng part is, they started to ask "when is it going to be YOUR turn?" Erk...

The same thing happened when I was just browsing around for my potential ring, wedding gowns, quotations for THE day and etc.

"So when are you guys planning to get married?" the hotelier asked.
"Err... nah not this year. maybe next year or later"
"Ooo~~~ you still have a loooooong way to go"

WTH??? Do YOU as a hotelier know that venue and date should be booked in advance for a specific date?

What's wrong with planning or do budgeting earlier????

I ALWAYS plan things in advance to avoid last minute stress okay..~
and I'm not the 'scream help for mummy' type.

*Geez... this makes me hate those who have things come so easy to them even more =_= .... financially of course*

Talking about moolah, i've had enough with paying my study loan.

According to the initial budget that PTPTN had planned for me, it is suppose to finish by my 38th birthday.

Are you kidding me?

I'm not gonna pay THAT long just so you get more from the accumulated monthly interest!

I have a lot in life to plan.

I want to travel.
I want my own house.
I want to buy a new car.
I want to have my own little restaurant.
I want to do a lot of things that people who had their parents paying for their study or those who got scholarship are enjoying now with their extra cash from their monthly salary!

But ranting wont get me anywhere.

Hence, I'm topping up my study loan payment AGAIN and target to complete it by end of 2012!

Oh man~... this 3 years is going to be reaaaaaallly sakit.

Seriously T_T


9 Responses to "Too much too soon?"

maslight said... February 24, 2010 at 11:40 AM

I think getting a house with a big compound is nice ;) and stay there forever! XD

#_# I don't wanna be like my parents, moving around so much, not farnie.

Aya said... February 24, 2010 at 2:01 PM

True... sudah deco nice2 kena move again.. aduh.. so mafan. but buying house is expensive.. those cheaper ones are too far :( Most people advice me not to take condo by wong kwok and also the platinum tower in 1Sulaman. =___=

Cath J said... February 24, 2010 at 3:56 PM

Hehehhehe.... Good job girl.. YOu doing it just right... keep it up.. ^_^

Esther said... February 24, 2010 at 4:22 PM

i think a condo is nice lo....since even if you got kids, still can stay at the condo mah cuz condo usually have 3 rooms??? condo have facilities like swimming pool/gym etc...if management is good then security should be ok also lo no need to mafan go install alarms and stuff.....well that's my opinion la XD

Aya said... February 24, 2010 at 5:09 PM

1sulaman platinum tower is giving 0% / 90% offer. only pay rm1000 to book a lot. Even the 2+1 room (1000sqft) looks big @_@. Am contemplating!!! Help!!! Try you guys go to 1B to see the showroom.

Some prob they say there are traffic jam, and wont look as the picture. *look at present state of 1B*...

Hrmmm :( Any more opinions?

Esther said... February 24, 2010 at 6:22 PM

1 sulaiman is the 1b punya condo's ka?? don't go or that cuz alot ppl selling it off leh...cuz alot of cracks....cuz my mom at 1st also very interested one but after seeing the cracks in 1b tau tau la....

TS Lim said... February 24, 2010 at 9:16 PM

Staying in condo and other 'managed' properties can be troublesome due to the maintenance fee. On the other hand, you are really paying others to maintain your 'surroundings' so to speak.

The other annoying thing is the amount of parking spots you get. It's never enough.

Aya said... February 25, 2010 at 7:29 AM

Esther: The platinum tower yang under construction that.. with the 5 gold horses. Either way... thanks for the tips! I'll look at some other places now :) Do recommend me any houses yg nice ^_^ .. below 300k of course. Haha!

TsLim:You always make sence charlim. You too recommend me anywhere yg nice but not too far. DOn't recommend me golden hill. XD

jacq said... March 16, 2010 at 1:54 PM

moiii! Get 1Sulaman! Become our neighbour! ;)


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