Back when I was still studying, I always have this believe that women should be strong, educated, independent and earn their own money, to be able to take care of themselves.
I don't believe in stay at home mom.
I even argued with Rizz before that I wont settle down as a housewife, that I'd want to work, earn lots and lots of money, do what I want, shop what I want and go wherever I want.
Now that I have my share of fun in 9-6pm working life, being a 'boss' so to speak, organizer and assistant to events, I'm slowly getting to a point that..."hrmmm... being a housewife is not a bad idea at all... kan Nadia?"
"I don't think you'll stand that long", she replied
"and why not???"
"coz you get satisfied and get bored so fast!"
*well, that's true. I do have the habit of getting after what I want so fast and get bored so fast too XD*
"But think about it. I want to be like those CORE Fitness hot mama's. If I'm married, and have no children yet, I can wake up at 10am, play game..."
"Playing games??? That's not a suri rumah!"
"..*ignoring*.. then I can watch tv series.."
"TV Seriesssss???? What happen to suri rumah berjaya???"
"...then I can go out to gym anytime, don't have to rush back and escape the stupid traffic jam... shopg all day..."
"shoppingggg???????"
".. then I can.."
"Wait! Wait! Wait! Then how and where are you gonna get your money from? Rich husband??"
"Eww.. who's desperate for a rich husband when you can make money on your own? MY HOUSE, girl, is gonna be a super cool office to earn MORE than what I get every month!"
"... ... ... ok... *still a workaholic*....."
See? Being a suri rumah berjaya IN THE FUTURE is not a bad idea at all =P
I'll still stick to my believe; To be strong, educated, independent and earn MY OWN money to be able to take care of myself.
But the down side of this trait is, in MOST cases, you'll get a poor and/or a lazy husband, who knows that you're independent enough to take care of yourself and arrange EVERYTHING yourself.
So who'll get the nice2 husband? *squint at lazy bimbo girls who only know how to whine and cry to get what they want*
So to the single strong ladies out there, keep your profile low...... Reeeaaaaallly low....
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I'm just gonna say that you're not the housewife material LOL. Workaholic!
Doing business from home is definitely possible these days, and it's easier if you do have some investments (especially property). You will definitely find excuses to go out anyway :) but whatever our choice is, identifying priorities (in most cases, family) and enjoying it that really counts.